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10/21/2009 1:40 AM HELP ME (26 Comments)
10/28/2009 11:58 AMRe: HELP ME
Speak to a lawyer, and get professional advice. You may be able to demonstrate you are in an abusive relationship and get assistance to get away from him quickly. You must do that today, don't put it off. Your pictures, if he had free access to view them, did you ever allow him to show others (you won't win that argument for any you have made freely available yourself on the internet).
10/28/2009 6:06 PMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME
10/28/2009 7:07 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: HELP ME
dori
40, Canada
well he showed me and we spoke of it on messenger and is the only proof i would have and i have been trying to contact my friend to let him know but no relies so i am at a dead end with that. anyways i am moving on with my life as if its not happening ahahahah which my not be a good thing but i have to be happy anyways right?
10/29/2009 6:46 AMRe: HELP ME
Get down on your knees and give you life to Jesus Christ then go see a lawyer.. If he is causing you mental stress to where it is abusive you have grounds for a divorce..But thats here in the states what is the laws foe mental abuse there in Canada??
10/29/2009 10:10 AMRe: HELP ME
Alex
19, Toronto, Ontario, Canada
i feel you, my girlfriend can be quite the irritable bitch some times, only issue is i don't want to break up with her.
what about you. if you hate your husband so much why are you with him? and i don't mean the marriage or even the fact that your not in the same country. just tell him to go fu*k himself, he makes you misrible and you diserve better don't you? if you don't have the balls to say it, get drunk. i always break up with my ex's when i'm drunk. lol
what about you. if you hate your husband so much why are you with him? and i don't mean the marriage or even the fact that your not in the same country. just tell him to go fu*k himself, he makes you misrible and you diserve better don't you? if you don't have the balls to say it, get drunk. i always break up with my ex's when i'm drunk. lol
10/28/2009 5:40 PMRe: HELP ME
GypsyMum
35, United States
Call those supportive to you already in your support system. Sometimes tell co-workers can lead to support you had not planned on too. Tell them what you have told us.
If your in danger make arrangements to leave the shared dwelling and lodge at a hotel or get an aprtment of your own.
I agree wiht mole about the lawyer in regards to the images you seem so worried about.
If your in danger make arrangements to leave the shared dwelling and lodge at a hotel or get an aprtment of your own.
I agree wiht mole about the lawyer in regards to the images you seem so worried about.
10/28/2009 6:02 PMRe: Re: HELP ME
dori
40, Canada
i was so mad and sad when i wrote this post because at that time he had stolen a friend s pic and he was using it on his messenger which to me is so childish i want to be divorced yes but its so compliacted right now the thing i am gald for is he is not in my country he can do all he wants to hurt me and make me sad a misriable but one thing he can not take from me is my heart, mind and soul hahahahahaa
thanks for your reply you are wise and friendly
wish i had a lot of money to afford an lawyer really :(
thanks for your reply you are wise and friendly
wish i had a lot of money to afford an lawyer really :(
10/28/2009 7:41 PMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME
GypsyMum
35, United States
Save your money up and apply for assistance you might jut luck in to a great lawyer.
If he is not in the same country, then you do not need to move out.
Set your goals and remember that you should have a happy healthy relationship.
We have all been at out wits end from time to time your a smart person to know that you havereashed your limmit.
If he is not in the same country, then you do not need to move out.
Set your goals and remember that you should have a happy healthy relationship.
We have all been at out wits end from time to time your a smart person to know that you havereashed your limmit.
10/28/2009 7:46 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: HELP ME
dori
40, Canada
oh it was way beyond as i took too much i have spoken to him since dec 2005 and he slowly changed during that time to being more jelaousy and obbessive and i was so in love but that was blind for sure
thanks for advise i have new goals new plans for my life which i am doing now is to be as happy as can be and let anyone in my life see it and feel it and hope they too would catch it and be happy
there is no time to be so serious and jealousy thats for sure hahahaha
thanks for advise i have new goals new plans for my life which i am doing now is to be as happy as can be and let anyone in my life see it and feel it and hope they too would catch it and be happy
there is no time to be so serious and jealousy thats for sure hahahaha
11/3/2009 5:10 PMRe: HELP ME
scar face
29, Lancaster, Pennsylvania, United States
I would say, bitween relationship forgivenes is the key of ur healty realation....if u think his behavier n attetiute r forgetable,,then 4rgive him n u know wut women,s got more power to bear,,,,n this all abou if u wana keep ur relation,with him,,,its,,up to u,














10/28/2009 1:02 AMRe: HELP ME