10/21/2009 1:40 AM HELP ME (26 Comments)

HeartSong69

HELP ME

OH MY LIFE IS SUCH A MESS I AM IN A MARRIAGE I NO LONGER WANT TO BE IN AND HE BUGS THE HELL OUT OF ME AND HE STEAL PIC'S AND SHOWS THEM OFF TO ME OH GOD THE ANXEITY I FEEL FOR ALL I AM GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW HURTS I WANNA CRY BUT I LAUGH AHAHAHAHA OUCH

10/28/2009 1:02 AMRe: HELP ME

yuri119
yuriVerified Zorpian 22, Manila, Philippines
the answer is devoce !

10/28/2009 5:58 PMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
thanks thats exactly what i want to do

10/29/2009 8:22 AMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME

yuri119
yuriVerified Zorpian 22, Manila, Philippines
good then

10/28/2009 11:58 AMRe: HELP ME

lasmole
Mole Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 49, Bromley, United Kingdom
Speak to a lawyer, and get professional advice. You may be able to demonstrate you are in an abusive relationship and get assistance to get away from him quickly. You must do that today, don't put it off. Your pictures, if he had free access to view them, did you ever allow him to show others (you won't win that argument for any you have made freely available yourself on the internet).

10/28/2009 5:59 PMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
well thats a bit complicated he is not in my country which am so glad for and i wish he would stop stealing my freinds pic's he can be so childish for sure

10/28/2009 6:06 PMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME

lasmole
Mole Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 49, Bromley, United Kingdom
If you can prove the theft of the pics and there misuse you can request whichever site to have them removed, or have your friends make the request. The saving grace is you are not living with him, which i think is the more important issue

10/28/2009 7:07 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
well he showed me and we spoke of it on messenger and is the only proof i would have and i have been trying to contact my friend to let him know but no relies so i am at a dead end with that. anyways i am moving on with my life as if its not happening ahahahah which my not be a good thing but i have to be happy anyways right?

10/29/2009 6:46 AMRe: HELP ME

Jerry1971
Jerry Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 38, Cumberland, Maryland, United States
Get down on your knees and give you life to Jesus Christ then go see a lawyer.. If he is causing you mental stress to where it is abusive you have grounds for a divorce..But thats here in the states what is the laws foe mental abuse there in Canada??

10/31/2009 5:36 AMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
not sure they even have it here
as they do there hmmm have to check it out
thanks for the message
take care :D

10/29/2009 10:10 AMRe: HELP ME

Leviathanel
Alex 19, Toronto, Ontario, Canada
i feel you, my girlfriend can be quite the irritable bitch some times, only issue is i don't want to break up with her.

what about you. if you hate your husband so much why are you with him? and i don't mean the marriage or even the fact that your not in the same country. just tell him to go fu*k himself, he makes you misrible and you diserve better don't you? if you don't have the balls to say it, get drunk. i always break up with my ex's when i'm drunk. lol

10/31/2009 5:38 AMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
well i do try to leave him alone but he always has a way to get back talking to me hmmm yes i deserve so much better
ahahahahahahaaha wish i could get drunk i would love a vodka right about now hahahaa

11/2/2009 1:41 AMRe: HELP ME

kenjichandesu
kenji 40, Saitama, Japan
i agree with yuri... you're pretty anyway

11/2/2009 2:51 AMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
well thanks kenji :D
have a great day!!!

11/3/2009 12:01 AMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME

kenjichandesu
kenji 40, Saitama, Japan
its ok dori..i been in toronto yesterday

11/11/2009 10:42 AMRe: HELP ME

tiffy16
tiffany 19, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
u need to get out while u can cause the longer u wait the harder it will get

11/11/2009 11:15 PMRe: HELP ME

jeanmauriceB
jm 43, Miramichi, New Brunswick, Canada
your gardian is here my friend no one will urt you will im around so send them too me

10/28/2009 5:40 PMRe: HELP ME

GypsyMum
GypsyMum 35, United States
Call those supportive to you already in your support system. Sometimes tell co-workers can lead to support you had not planned on too. Tell them what you have told us.
If your in danger make arrangements to leave the shared dwelling and lodge at a hotel or get an aprtment of your own.
I agree wiht mole about the lawyer in regards to the images you seem so worried about.

10/28/2009 6:02 PMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
i was so mad and sad when i wrote this post because at that time he had stolen a friend s pic and he was using it on his messenger which to me is so childish i want to be divorced yes but its so compliacted right now the thing i am gald for is he is not in my country he can do all he wants to hurt me and make me sad a misriable but one thing he can not take from me is my heart, mind and soul hahahahahaa
thanks for your reply you are wise and friendly
wish i had a lot of money to afford an lawyer really :(

10/28/2009 7:41 PMRe: Re: Re: HELP ME

GypsyMum
GypsyMum 35, United States
Save your money up and apply for assistance you might jut luck in to a great lawyer.
If he is not in the same country, then you do not need to move out.
Set your goals and remember that you should have a happy healthy relationship.
We have all been at out wits end from time to time your a smart person to know that you havereashed your limmit.

10/28/2009 7:46 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
oh it was way beyond as i took too much i have spoken to him since dec 2005 and he slowly changed during that time to being more jelaousy and obbessive and i was so in love but that was blind for sure
thanks for advise i have new goals new plans for my life which i am doing now is to be as happy as can be and let anyone in my life see it and feel it and hope they too would catch it and be happy
there is no time to be so serious and jealousy thats for sure hahahaha

10/28/2009 7:23 PMRe: HELP ME

divyyne1
Davina 40, Buena Park, California, United States
its your choice if you want to be in that relationship or not.
no one is making you go thru agony but yourself.
its called self infliction

10/28/2009 7:33 PMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
ahahahahha well its a marriage from hell am sure and i am not with him so am happy anyways thanks for your observance of my situation

11/3/2009 5:10 PMRe: HELP ME

alpacino68
scar face 29, Lancaster, Pennsylvania, United States
I would say, bitween relationship forgivenes is the key of ur healty realation....if u think his behavier n attetiute r forgetable,,then 4rgive him n u know wut women,s got more power to bear,,,,n this all abou if u wana keep ur relation,with him,,,its,,up to u,

11/3/2009 11:09 PMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
well what was said is unforgivable to me
and all the love i have ever felt drained away with that
so no i would not be happy in that relationship any more i know that now
thanks for your reply

11/4/2009 3:38 PMRe: HELP ME

blesses53
Penny 56, Panama City, Florida, United States
Please don't cry !
Dump him
Get a new Dog

11/8/2009 2:50 AMRe: Re: HELP ME

HeartSong69
dori 40, Canada
ahahaha ok thanks
have a great weekend
take care :D
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